No, this post isnt going to be political. I promise. I know Ive been neglecting the blog lately and I apologize. Im determined to keep it going this time around. I want to start off on the right foot and in doing so Im going to be sharing with you. Things I dont normally share with anyone. Im doing this in hopes of maybe helping someone out there and maybe keeping myself motivated.
Almost every single year on January 1st we all make resolutions that we usually break in the first weeks. This year its going to be different. How? We're not doing resolutions this year. We're making goals. Multiple short term goals to reach a larger long term goal. My goal this year is to get myself on the right track. My main goal is weight control.
As I was talking to a dear friend of mine the other day I shared things with her that I have never shared with anyone else. Until now. Im going to share that with you in hopes that someone out there who might happen to read this can relate (not that I would wish this on anyone) but in being able to relate they can get some inspiration out of it.
Im not a small person. Im not even medium. I dont think mcdonalds even serves anything in my size! All joking aside though, I have come to see myself as others see me. Not for what qualities I have or what I could possibly have to offer people. Im not invisible. Far the opposite. People dont see me for me, they see me as the fat chick that should be ashamed to leave home. Sure enough, its true. I hate being stuck at home, but at the same time I am ashamed to go outside. I usually go through everything in my closet before deciding on something that makes me feel like I can blend into the crowd.
A while back I found myself in a thrift shop. I was looking for things I could use my crafty ideas on for our new home we had just bought. I have a serious addiction to books. I came across a massive selection of books so I had to stop and see what all was there. I had found a whole arm load of books and found myself squating almost sitting on the floor to look through the bottom shelves. I was in my own little word, I honestly cant remember having a care in the world at that particular point. Just as quickly as it started, it ended. Behind me I heard a couple teenage girls whispering and laughing. I dont know what they were whispering about but a sense of embarassment and shame took over me. I felt like they were whispering about me. Laughing at me. I quickly got up, gathered up my books and headed for the register. I quickly checked out and left the store.
Last December, I found myself needing an outfit desperately in very very short notice. I had a wedding I needed to attend later that afternoon. I checked multiple shops and made a last stop at Wal-Mart. Blaine was with me and trying to help me find something quickly so we could get back and get ready. Not a single store had anything in my size. I got so frustrated that I found my eyes filling with tears. I tried my best to hide it as I passed people coming into the store as I was leaving, empty handed.
Ive been rejected, laughed at, whispered about and disregarded so much I am now doing it to myself. I find myself at times ashamed for my own husband to see any part of me. No matter how much he tells me he loves me or that Im perfect just the way I am or any other compliment, I cant take it. I dont see it. I dont believe it. Im tired. Im tired of being so down on myself and Im tired of being a joke to everyone. Tired of everyone telling me Im bigger than they are. Giving me things because they have lost weight and it no longer fits, so lets give it to the fat chick!
As I was talking to my friend and telling her these things, she had one thing to say that truly stuck out to me, more so than anything else. "Do something about it". So I'm doing it. Starting now. And I hope that as I write you will find that if you are in this position too, you will know you arent alone. That you can do this. We'll do it together.
So if you want to get healthy, make the call to your doctor and get a checkup. Talk with your doctor about starting a routine for lifestyle changes. This isnt a diet so dont think of it as such.
There are many other things to come to this blog as well, so there will be something for everyone, I hope, if anyone ever comes across it to read! lol and just for the record, Kelly...thank you!
Wednesday, December 31, 2008
Thursday, September 18, 2008
Rednecks & Beer
There just isnt words to describe this! I dont know whether to laugh or hang my head in shame! Aint no wonder people call us rednecks!
Friday, August 1, 2008
Mommy Meals
If you are anything like me you love something quick and simple, yet good! So Im going to start doing these Mommy Meal recipe posts. A lot of these will be things Ive found online or in my books but mostly things Ive just whipped together last minute.
On another note, most all recipes you find in these posts will not have exact measurements so add what you think you would like based on each ingredient.
Spicy Italian BBQ (Chops)
- pack of boneless porkchops
- Honey BBQ Sauce
- Soy Sauce
- Spices: Crushed Red Pepper, Soul Seasoning, Garlic/Salt/Pepper, Chicken & Rib Rub,
Italian Seasoning, Onion Powder
- OPTIONAL: onions, green peppers, tomatoes
Put all your chops in a large baking dish. Cover each one with the honey bbq sauce. Add enough water to the pan to just barely cover the chops. Add about 1-1.5 tsp of soy sauce. Layer all your spices (about half to 1 tsp each). Cook at 400 degrees for about 1 hour if frozen. 400 degrees for about 30 minutes if thawed
We are serving the Spicy Italian BBQ with baked potatoes and parmesan noodles from Pasta-Roni just follow directions on the box.
On another note, most all recipes you find in these posts will not have exact measurements so add what you think you would like based on each ingredient.
Spicy Italian BBQ (Chops)
- pack of boneless porkchops
- Honey BBQ Sauce
- Soy Sauce
- Spices: Crushed Red Pepper, Soul Seasoning, Garlic/Salt/Pepper, Chicken & Rib Rub,
Italian Seasoning, Onion Powder
- OPTIONAL: onions, green peppers, tomatoes
Put all your chops in a large baking dish. Cover each one with the honey bbq sauce. Add enough water to the pan to just barely cover the chops. Add about 1-1.5 tsp of soy sauce. Layer all your spices (about half to 1 tsp each). Cook at 400 degrees for about 1 hour if frozen. 400 degrees for about 30 minutes if thawed
We are serving the Spicy Italian BBQ with baked potatoes and parmesan noodles from Pasta-Roni just follow directions on the box.
Sunday, July 13, 2008
Bathrooms
I know Im so far behind. Things have been sneaking up on me. Anyway, Im back and ready to do the assessments for our bathroom area.
Bathroom:
The most dreaded task that we face in our bathrooms are our medicine cabinets and "extras". So we will start with those. In our medicine cabinets we all have stuff thats gotten pushed to the back or has otherwise left our memories thinking we didnt have. The best way to handle this is to take everything out of the medicine cabinet and start fresh. Since its completely empty clean the shelves. Now we're going to start putting things back. You want to toss out anything you no longer use, anything that has no label and check ALL the expiration dates on the boxes or bottles. Now you want to start putting the most commonly used items (pain medicines, daily prescriptions, etc) on a particular shelf (whichever suits you and your family best). Make sure all the labels are facing you so its easy to find what you need. Add bandages and first aid items to another shelf. If you have room add some of the things you dont use as often. Most medicine cabinets come with a 3rd shelf so all the seasonal items (cold medicines, seasonal allergy medicines, etc) should go onto this shelf.
Now for the "extras" we all have them. Find a great deal on shampoos & conditioners. The extra shaving cream we picked up because we thought we were out. You get the idea. Before we start digging into this stash we need to work on the bathtub. Check all the cans & bottles and other things you store there for easy access. If its empty toss it. If theres just a little bit left in a bottle can you combine it with another bottle? (i.e. scented shampoo matched to the same brand/scent in another bottle). Check all razors and if the blades are rusted or no longer usable, toss it. Now you have room for the stuff you actually need in there, so we can get to the stash under the sink or in the closet.
Once again, take everything out. We're only going to put back what we need and know we will use. First pick all the things you dont like or wont use and set them aside. Go through the rest of them and start putting the things back you want to keep. Keep all shampoos together (again with all labels facing you when you open the door), keep all shaving items together, and so forth.
Make a list of the things you have found you are completely out of, pack up the stuff you set aside and ask a neighbor or someone close to you if they can use it.
Now the hard part is out of the way and it wasnt as bad as you thought it was going to be. The rest is in your hands.
Bathroom:
The most dreaded task that we face in our bathrooms are our medicine cabinets and "extras". So we will start with those. In our medicine cabinets we all have stuff thats gotten pushed to the back or has otherwise left our memories thinking we didnt have. The best way to handle this is to take everything out of the medicine cabinet and start fresh. Since its completely empty clean the shelves. Now we're going to start putting things back. You want to toss out anything you no longer use, anything that has no label and check ALL the expiration dates on the boxes or bottles. Now you want to start putting the most commonly used items (pain medicines, daily prescriptions, etc) on a particular shelf (whichever suits you and your family best). Make sure all the labels are facing you so its easy to find what you need. Add bandages and first aid items to another shelf. If you have room add some of the things you dont use as often. Most medicine cabinets come with a 3rd shelf so all the seasonal items (cold medicines, seasonal allergy medicines, etc) should go onto this shelf.
Now for the "extras" we all have them. Find a great deal on shampoos & conditioners. The extra shaving cream we picked up because we thought we were out. You get the idea. Before we start digging into this stash we need to work on the bathtub. Check all the cans & bottles and other things you store there for easy access. If its empty toss it. If theres just a little bit left in a bottle can you combine it with another bottle? (i.e. scented shampoo matched to the same brand/scent in another bottle). Check all razors and if the blades are rusted or no longer usable, toss it. Now you have room for the stuff you actually need in there, so we can get to the stash under the sink or in the closet.
Once again, take everything out. We're only going to put back what we need and know we will use. First pick all the things you dont like or wont use and set them aside. Go through the rest of them and start putting the things back you want to keep. Keep all shampoos together (again with all labels facing you when you open the door), keep all shaving items together, and so forth.
Make a list of the things you have found you are completely out of, pack up the stuff you set aside and ask a neighbor or someone close to you if they can use it.
Now the hard part is out of the way and it wasnt as bad as you thought it was going to be. The rest is in your hands.
Thursday, June 26, 2008
De-Cluttering
Im sure you've heard the old saying "You have to spend money to make money". Well in ways its true for saving money too.
My family, all of us, is horrible about just buying the cheapest thing to get us by. We keep the train of thought "it will do for now". Really it doesn't though. It usually causes more problems than we had originally. And now we are out the money for the "cheap/quick fix" and still have to shell out for the right product to fix the problem.
Where Im going with this is there are tons of ways to save yourself money already in your home. Its the thought process that you have to re-evaluate. Sure some things you are going to need/want to buy. Myself I'm trying to go with the new motto "If it cant be used but for one thing I don't need it". This is a very hard concept for me as Im a packrat through and through. If its cute I want it, if its shiny I want it, if I dont know what it is I want it. Okay Im not really THAT bad. But the basic meaning, I hold onto too much junk.
We are having a 4 family yard sale the first weekend in August. Why August? This was my mothers brilliant reasoning. School starts back on August 7th where I live. We have all kinds of clothes that we are putting into the sale. People who have found themselves in a rut and not able to afford all brand spanking new clothes this fall for their kids will be hunting for bargains. And the kind person I am I am going to offer them more bargain than they imagined!
Now we come to the part where we have to decide what goes and what stays. If you are like me and hold onto lots of things this is going to be very difficult for you. We have to assess what we have, what we need and what is just in the way. We're not going to jump in and do it all at once. Baby steps for those of us who cry over throwing away dryer lint!
since I have an average of 5 weeks, we are going to do this in 5 weeks. 1 task per week. The tasks arent going to be very easy but they will be efficient and I promise you, you will see a big difference in your home, your ability to find things, and your mood. So lets get started...
Week 1: Bedrooms
Week 2: Bathrooms & Laundry Room
Week 3: Kitchen/Home Office
Week 4: Living Quarters
Week 5: Garage & Other
To start with your bedroom, pick out your most dreaded task. For me its clothing. I hate going through and trying on clothes. It makes me feel horrible to see the things that fit last week I cant get above my knees this week. I am determined. I know I have barely anything to wear and people I run into more than a couple times a week are beginning to wonder "is that the only outfit she has to wear OMG!" Almost yes. but at least its clean!
My assessment:
I know what I want and what I dont want. I am only 25 years old I should not be wearing the same styles and patterns as my grandmother is today.
I LOVE baggy t-shirts for my comfy days and the snug fitting jeans. This is what I keep. I have worn gray and black for the past 3 years. Im sick of it. All gray and black shirts must go with the exception of my 2 Ryan Newman shirts!
I LOVE those same jeans with my "date" shirts. I only have 3 or 4 of these, I will keep.
Shorts, Skirts and other: I hate shorts/capris/pants that do not zip and button. In other words anything with elastic must go. Ok I'll keep 1 pair for lounging around in. All others must go. I do not wear skirts, Im by no means a girly girl and if I can wear jeans thats what Im wearing! all skirts must go. Other: for me would be shoes. I have 2 pairs of sneakers, one good pair for wearing when I leave the house, 1 pair for mowing the lawn and general housework. These both stay until I get another suitable pair. I have 1 pair of lace up boots. I wear these on my date nights, they stay. I have 1 pair of outdated sandals and 2 pairs of crocs. One pair of crocs stay, other pair and sandals must go.
KEEP:
shorts/capris/pants that fit and that button & zip
dress shirts (3-4 total)
Shoes: 2 pairs sneakers, 1 pair crocs, boots
Select few t-shirts
GOES:
shorts/pants/capris with elastic
black & gray t-shirts
shirts I havent worn in 2 weeks
sandals & 1 pair crocs
Now we have a basic starting point and a list of what we are keeping and what we are not keeping. The remainder of the room should be pretty easy to get through once the daunting task of the clothes has been taken care of. Now its in your hands.
PLEASE DO NOT put these clothes in the trash! If you dont have a local goodwill or salvation army store/drop off, call your local fire department, local churches. They usually take donations for people who have lost their belongings to natural disasters or for the homeless. It would truly make someones day to get them that needed them.
My family, all of us, is horrible about just buying the cheapest thing to get us by. We keep the train of thought "it will do for now". Really it doesn't though. It usually causes more problems than we had originally. And now we are out the money for the "cheap/quick fix" and still have to shell out for the right product to fix the problem.
Where Im going with this is there are tons of ways to save yourself money already in your home. Its the thought process that you have to re-evaluate. Sure some things you are going to need/want to buy. Myself I'm trying to go with the new motto "If it cant be used but for one thing I don't need it". This is a very hard concept for me as Im a packrat through and through. If its cute I want it, if its shiny I want it, if I dont know what it is I want it. Okay Im not really THAT bad. But the basic meaning, I hold onto too much junk.
We are having a 4 family yard sale the first weekend in August. Why August? This was my mothers brilliant reasoning. School starts back on August 7th where I live. We have all kinds of clothes that we are putting into the sale. People who have found themselves in a rut and not able to afford all brand spanking new clothes this fall for their kids will be hunting for bargains. And the kind person I am I am going to offer them more bargain than they imagined!
Now we come to the part where we have to decide what goes and what stays. If you are like me and hold onto lots of things this is going to be very difficult for you. We have to assess what we have, what we need and what is just in the way. We're not going to jump in and do it all at once. Baby steps for those of us who cry over throwing away dryer lint!
since I have an average of 5 weeks, we are going to do this in 5 weeks. 1 task per week. The tasks arent going to be very easy but they will be efficient and I promise you, you will see a big difference in your home, your ability to find things, and your mood. So lets get started...
Week 1: Bedrooms
Week 2: Bathrooms & Laundry Room
Week 3: Kitchen/Home Office
Week 4: Living Quarters
Week 5: Garage & Other
To start with your bedroom, pick out your most dreaded task. For me its clothing. I hate going through and trying on clothes. It makes me feel horrible to see the things that fit last week I cant get above my knees this week. I am determined. I know I have barely anything to wear and people I run into more than a couple times a week are beginning to wonder "is that the only outfit she has to wear OMG!" Almost yes. but at least its clean!
My assessment:
I know what I want and what I dont want. I am only 25 years old I should not be wearing the same styles and patterns as my grandmother is today.
I LOVE baggy t-shirts for my comfy days and the snug fitting jeans. This is what I keep. I have worn gray and black for the past 3 years. Im sick of it. All gray and black shirts must go with the exception of my 2 Ryan Newman shirts!
I LOVE those same jeans with my "date" shirts. I only have 3 or 4 of these, I will keep.
Shorts, Skirts and other: I hate shorts/capris/pants that do not zip and button. In other words anything with elastic must go. Ok I'll keep 1 pair for lounging around in. All others must go. I do not wear skirts, Im by no means a girly girl and if I can wear jeans thats what Im wearing! all skirts must go. Other: for me would be shoes. I have 2 pairs of sneakers, one good pair for wearing when I leave the house, 1 pair for mowing the lawn and general housework. These both stay until I get another suitable pair. I have 1 pair of lace up boots. I wear these on my date nights, they stay. I have 1 pair of outdated sandals and 2 pairs of crocs. One pair of crocs stay, other pair and sandals must go.
KEEP:
shorts/capris/pants that fit and that button & zip
dress shirts (3-4 total)
Shoes: 2 pairs sneakers, 1 pair crocs, boots
Select few t-shirts
GOES:
shorts/pants/capris with elastic
black & gray t-shirts
shirts I havent worn in 2 weeks
sandals & 1 pair crocs
Now we have a basic starting point and a list of what we are keeping and what we are not keeping. The remainder of the room should be pretty easy to get through once the daunting task of the clothes has been taken care of. Now its in your hands.
PLEASE DO NOT put these clothes in the trash! If you dont have a local goodwill or salvation army store/drop off, call your local fire department, local churches. They usually take donations for people who have lost their belongings to natural disasters or for the homeless. It would truly make someones day to get them that needed them.
Tuesday, June 24, 2008
For the Kids
Its been a while since Ive written. Just had too much going on lately. I am hoping to get back into the daily posting of something. But to make up for the lack of posts I have some extra stuff for you for today.
I've been talking to my good friend Heather, who is doing all kinds of neat stuff with her kiddos this summer. Shes got some great ideas and if she allows me permission I will be back to edit this post with a link to her blog. Since it features pics of her kids I wont do so until she gives the ok!
Shes inspiring me in so many ways and this area is one of them. So Ive been doing some hunting and found a whole bunch of neat things for you to do with your little ones!
The Idea Box
Begin your new "Boredom Cure" with a tissue or shoe box. Which of course, has been decorated by your little one. When you come across an idea that strikes your fancy, write it on a slip of paper and place it in the box. Send them running to the idea box when they say they are bored.
Windsock
Home Planetarium
Card Creatures
7 Backyard Activities
Get Dirty Activities
Summer Movies for Rainy Days
Word Searches, Coloring Pages, Travel Games
Summer Books
Game Night Suggestions
Indoor Boredom Busters (whole list)
Garden Stones
Chinese Fan
Flip Flops
Bottle Cap Ladybug
Princess Castle
Photo Coasters
Recycled Notepads
CD Case Photo Frame
Collage Cards
Bird Feeders
I will have more lists as time allows! now write these down, print them out, bookmark them and go get started!
I've been talking to my good friend Heather, who is doing all kinds of neat stuff with her kiddos this summer. Shes got some great ideas and if she allows me permission I will be back to edit this post with a link to her blog. Since it features pics of her kids I wont do so until she gives the ok!
Shes inspiring me in so many ways and this area is one of them. So Ive been doing some hunting and found a whole bunch of neat things for you to do with your little ones!
The Idea Box
Begin your new "Boredom Cure" with a tissue or shoe box. Which of course, has been decorated by your little one. When you come across an idea that strikes your fancy, write it on a slip of paper and place it in the box. Send them running to the idea box when they say they are bored.
Windsock
Home Planetarium
Card Creatures
7 Backyard Activities
Get Dirty Activities
Summer Movies for Rainy Days
Word Searches, Coloring Pages, Travel Games
Summer Books
Game Night Suggestions
Indoor Boredom Busters (whole list)
Garden Stones
Chinese Fan
Flip Flops
Bottle Cap Ladybug
Princess Castle
Photo Coasters
Recycled Notepads
CD Case Photo Frame
Collage Cards
Bird Feeders
I will have more lists as time allows! now write these down, print them out, bookmark them and go get started!
Monday, June 2, 2008
This Should Brighten Your Day
Todays post is all thanks to my DH! Him and his buddy have been all over youtube tonight and came across these videos. I couldnt help but to share with you!
Sunday, June 1, 2008
Give Her the Ol' One Two
While debating on what to post about today I found a video that I wanted to share. So thats my post for today. I dont know the whole story here and by the looks of this video I dont even want to. All I can say is Im glad they were both charged. I believe that the student should be expelled from school and if her last year, revoke her graduation privileges. I also think that the teacher should be handed walking papers. No matter who was initially at fault they were both throwing punches and its totally uncalled for by any means. Even though I do believe that the teacher had a right to defend herself.
What are your thoughts? What if it was your kid? What if you were the teacher?
What are your thoughts? What if it was your kid? What if you were the teacher?
Saturday, May 31, 2008
What to Expect
Basically the truth is you dont know what to expect. If you keep that mindset you wont be disappointed. However the reasoning in starting this blog is to connect women of all communities, all walks of life. I will be covering many topics from news stories to my kids and products I particularly like or dislike to hobbies. Theres bound to be something here to suit everyone. The plan is to talk about something every day.
So add me to your bookmarks and keep checking back as I get the ball rolling. If you have a blog add me to your blog roll! Comments will be open to all so you can post your opinions on the days topic or suggestions for another topic. However lets act like ladies here and be respectful of everyone!
Thanks!
So add me to your bookmarks and keep checking back as I get the ball rolling. If you have a blog add me to your blog roll! Comments will be open to all so you can post your opinions on the days topic or suggestions for another topic. However lets act like ladies here and be respectful of everyone!
Thanks!
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